Did being Washington’s right-hand man work for him? No. There was also a voice in his head: “Don’t forget where you came from.” A fear and shame that only power - the world knowing his name - could help him overcome. But, as the song also says, “inside, there was an invisible and insatiable longing to find something to be part of.” An orphan at 12, the son of “a whore,” he lived in squalor, had no father. To say Alexander Hamilton’s childhood was hard is to put it mildly. Overall, the fears are too unsettling to feel. Like Hamilton, you may be hungry for power any way you can get it. When they are, you’re left feeling powerless too vulnerable to open up to love longing for it, but untrusting and scared you won’t be wanted, good enough, or ever have a place where you really belong. The past won’t let you go.Ĭhildhoods are sometimes very hard. Here are 5 lessons about infidelity you can learn from Hamilton. Looking at Alexander Hamilton’s story, you can uncover why that forbidden fruit can be so tempting, even if you have a kind and trusting love right there beside you. It might seem to give you power over a fear of being left, putting the one you can’t quite fully love on the outside of a triangle. Infidelity is one form that worry and shame may take. But then, your longings can’t be satisfied, especially if you’re afraid to open your heart. So, what do you do with the pain? You cling to any form of “power” you can find over helplessness or shame.
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If you’ve had a painful past, the side-effects likely won’t let you free - no matter how hard you try.
To start, we have a need for power, the past, and old hungers. In fact, the Tony-award-winning musical Hamilton holds many lessons on infidelity. What does “I’m not throwing away my shot” have to do with infidelity in marriage? You’d be surprised. This piece on Hamilton was originally written for and published on.
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